Is it impossible to get your ex boyfriend back?
I've learnt from experience that the impossible is often the untried. However, also I know you have tried several ways, methods, techniques, etc just to get your ex back in your arms and it all seems to fail. What could be the cause of all this?
The problem does not stem from what you've tried, it is actually how you've tried it. You may have tried in your own way to win him back and the reason why you've not succeeded is mostly due to the steps you took which were NOT what you should have done. You are going to see first hand what you should avoid doing and exactly what you should do to get your ex boyfriend back. Therefore...
Right now are you asking yourself this..., "How can I get my ex boyfriend back?"
Are you also feeling so disturbed that everything you do is pushing your ex away from you even further, almost by the minute?
Is your situations so difficult that it is now looking more like an impossibility rather than a reality?
Do you really want your ex boyfriend back?
If you've read up to this point, it is very obvious you are serious about stopping your break up and rekindling the flame of love in your almost extinguished relationship.
First of all, you should look at your self and your behavior. Are you feeling overly anxious to get your ex back? If this sounds like you then you are behaving in the wrong way and this is causing your ex to pull further away naturally. Think about it for a minute... it is human nature in general to resist this kind of pressure. You should know that struggling against human nature is completely pointless and will only make matters worse.
The next thing is this, Are you calling him too much, constantly bombarding him with e-mails or sending a little too many text messages?
Are you trying so hard to make him feel sorry for you?
If you are doing any or all of these things,... STOP IT RIGHT NOW!
If your question is, "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back?", then you need to stop doing these things now.
Here's a simple, straightforward strategy you can use right now... I mean TODAY, that will GREATLY improve your chances of getting your ex lover back in your arms again:
For the next 3 - 5 days, break every contact - every call, e-mail, text messages,etc... I mean every form of contact with him. Start doing your own thing - what you like to do best, what gives you pleasure, what makes you feel good - it could be shopping, visiting and/or hanging out with your girl friends or any other thing that just puts your mind off him for a while. You should use this time to focus on ways to improve your own personal life rather than focusing on any relationship issues between you and your ex boyfriend.
Now this is not going to be easy, in fact it will be a challenging time for you and it will require proper self discipline to prevent you from going back to your old ways. But... if you really want to get your ex boyfriend back, you'll need to take this important step.
During this time, your ex is going to experience a shift in how he feels about you, since you will no longer be calling, emailing or sending him text messages. You will be using a very powerful force, curiosity, on him making you to become mysterious to him in some ways, because at this point he is not sure what you are doing, thinking or feeling. This is actually something that can work in your favor. Now your ex is in a position to actually miss you, which may not have been possible when you were smothering him.
You must remember that the key to this strategy and repairing a break up is to work with human nature rather than attempting to work against it. If you are wondering "What can I do to get my ex boyfriend back", now you should have a fairly basic understanding on how certain common mistakes can be avoided. Once you implement this basic strategy you can restore a balance and allow your ex to remember why he loved you in the first place.
Keep yourself firm, grounded, busy and happy while avoiding to smother him. Make yourself appear mysterious and this will increase his curiosity reminding him why he loved you in the first place. Play hard to get (just don't over do it) and allow him make the first move which will give you an edge over him, allowing you to be at the top of the situation at all times.
When he finally makes that first move, what should you do, what should you say and how should you react? There is a complete strategy on How To Get Your Ex Back that has been carefully laid down, in easy and straightforward steps for you to use.