Jumpstart Tips For Getting Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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Here are a few tips for getting your ex girlfriend back but you need to keep in mind that these are only part of a larger, overall plan that you must have in place before you ever start using “any" tips or tactics.

Before you ever try getting your ex girlfriend back you must first learn to get yourself back. When a relationship ends, it leaves emotional scars that can get the best of us if we let them. Sadness and depression often sets in and then we can't think rationally about much of anything. You need to get your act together first. The fact is, if you are a mess emotionally, why would anyone, including your ex, be attracted to you?

Take a weekend away from everything to clear your head. Maybe try a new hairstyle or even get a new wardrobe. It will make you feel better and give you a renewed sense of self esteem. Getting your ex girlfriend back will take self confidence so you will really need to work on this part. I know its tough man but you can do it. You must do it.

Never let yourself be seen as needy, especially by your ex. In other words, don't hound your ex with phone calls and messages. Don't chase them around everywhere they go and most definitely don't try to get your friends to spy on them for you. Forget about them as best you can for now.

Never bad-mouth them to your friends. It won't help your situation and if you do get back together it will only cause tension between you and your friends, let alone the fact that it most probably will get back to your ex. That is counterintuitive to what you are trying to do.

What you are trying to do first is to play on two different character traits that almost everyone has. The first is self-interest and the second is curiosity. If you can create a situation where you ex has to deal with both of these things concerning you, you will greatly increase your chances of getting her back. Let me give you an example but I must warn you. Never use this tactic until you are using it as part of an overall plan. If you try it without a strategy it most likely will backfire on you and drastically reduce your chances of getting your ex girlfriend back.

Imagine for a moment leaving your ex a voice mail message like this: “Hi Carrie it's me. I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate what you did for me. I would love to thank you in person. Call me." Do you think she will call you back? Most likely because she will drive herself crazy trying to figure out what she did that you appreciate so much and secondly, the fact that you want to thank her in person will play on her what's-in-it-for-me syndrome or self-interest. She won't have any answers until she does. Cool eh? Just remember not to run out and use this tactic by itself without a plan.

Well there ya have it guys. Get yourself together and create a plan. You know how to do the first one but if you seriously are ready to try getting your ex girlfriend back it's time for you to take the next step and learn the rest of the secrets. Without them, you might get lucky. With them, you're much more likely to succeed!

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