5 Dating Mistakes That Women Make With Men

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Great men are hard to find. So when you find one,

don’t ruin your chances by making these deadly

mistakes. Remember, attractive men have dated a lot

of women so they know what’s going on. The result?

They’ll disappear before you realize you’ve done

anything wrong.

 

Here are 5 things that many women do that blow

their chances with their boyfriend, and how to avoid

them.

 Mistake #1: Sharing your feelings with him too

early

 

Men love their freedom and independence ­ no

mysteries there! So when you announce that you love

him, it often sets off a trigger that you might be

one of those “clingy types.” Remember that the

early stages of dating should always remain casual.

 

Only after you get to know each other really well

should you pursue anything further. It’s also worth

mentioning that you can’t logically convince

someone to fall in love with you. Falling in love

is a process that happens outside the conscious

mind ­ remember that. Which brings me to…

 

Mistake #2: Trying to push it too far too soon

 

It’s natural to wonder about the nature of your

relationship, “Does he want more? Or is this just a

fling?” But remember, if you start talking about

marriage after only 12 months, you could ruin your

chances to take things further. And if you don’t

live together, cooking dinner or doing his laundry

isn’t a good idea.

 

A nice meal once in a while is okay, but don’t make it

a regular thing. Yes, it’s true, many men are scared of

commitment; but just because they don’t want it now,

doesn’t mean they don’t want to settle down. They

just need time.

 

 Mistake #3: Being too available

 

You might think this is playing a mind game or

being manipulative, but putting your best side

forward is also manipulative.

 

Why? Because it’s done to get a desirable outcome.

This is simply a reminder to be who you were before

you met the man and continue to be that person,

rather than use trickery.

 

Remember that your busy, interesting and

fun life only has so much time for him, no matter

how much you like him. And remember, men love a

challenge, so this actually works in your favor.

 

 Mistake #4: Not being yourself

 

Men love confident women with a strong sense of

self-worth. Unfortunately, women often try to guess

how the man wants them to act and try to

accommodate his mold, which leaves very little room

for your own personality to shine. (And yes, men do

this too.) In other words, they love her strength.

It’s very attractive.

Mistake #5: Appealing to his sexual side too much

 

Believe it or not, it’s NOT make-up, dyed hair,

pretty clothes or even nice shoes that attract men,

not into a successful long-term relationships

anyway! While “looks” is the obvious factor that

seems to get an instant response from men,

long-term success comes with finding a man who

admires and respects you regardless of your

exterior. If your man only likes you for your

looks, then he doesn’t really love you.

 

So there you have it. The 5 big mistakes that women

make while they’re dating men. Avoid these mistakes

and you’ll dramatically increase the chances of

succeeding with him.

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