A Terrible Mistake That's Keeping You From Success With Women
by Joseph Matthews
Lately, I've been having a great time. It can be easy to get so worked up over normal, every day things -- like work, school, relationships, etc. -- that it's nice to every once and a while take a step back and unwind.
That's what I've been doing lately.
And it's been a great reminder to me that we shouldn't be taking life so seriously all the time.
In fact, being able to kick back like this is a key factor in being successful in life -- AND with women!
Allow me to explain.
Fun is an important factor in being successful. You have to actually ENJOY the journey you're taking if you want to achieve your goals in life.
For instance, if you want to be a pro golfer, but you HATE golfing, do you think you're going to stick to your goal? Or will you look for something more satisfying for you?
I'm willing to bet the answer to that is YES.
The same is true of meeting women.
If you want to have a beautiful girlfriend/wife/whatever, but you HATE the process of meeting women, are you really going to end up getting what you want?
I'm willing to bet the answer to that is NO.
I get emails on a daily basis from guys lamenting about how much they want to have a wonderful woman in their lives, but they always add to that "But I hate going to bars, clubs, bookstores, gas stations, public places, anywhere with actual living humans, etc. What can I do?"
I think some guys would just prefer to sit at home and look at naughty pictures of women on the internet than actually go out and meet real girls.
This is because they don't know how to make meeting women FUN.
And let's face it, if this is a chore, then you're not going to want to do it, right?
So let's role up our sleeves and get our hands dirty, because I want to tell you how to make meeting women something you actually can ENJOY doing as opposed to making it something you HATE doing and are reluctant to pursue.
The first thing I want you to think about is what kind of a woman it is that you want. What does she like? What is she interested in? What does she look like? The more you know about the woman you want, the easier it will be to filter out all the girls you DON'T want.
Remember, the narrower your search, the more happy you'll be with the results you get.
The second thing I want you to think about is where you can meet the kind of woman you want. Make a list of all the places you can think of where a woman who's interested in the kind of things you want her to be would go.
For instance, let's say you want a girl who loves baseball. Where would girls who love baseball go? Just off the top of my head, here's a list:
1. Major League Baseball Games
2. Minor League Baseball Games
3. Little League Baseball Games
4. Sports Bars On Game Day
5. Sporting Goods Stores
6. Baseball Conventions
The list could go on, but you get the idea. So if you love baseball, and you want a woman who loves baseball -- GO TO A BASEBALL GAME! And while you're there, meet the women who are there too! Use the other qualities you're looking for in a girl to pick and choose which women you want to meet.
At the very least, you're doing something you enjoy anyway, so you're going to have fun no matter what!
But if you're still wondering what to do once you actually have to MEET a woman, you need to check out my book The Art Of Approaching.
In it, I'll take you step-by-step through the process of how to meet the women you want, quickly and easily, with no fear of rejection or failure. If you haven't already gotten my book and read it cover-to-cover, you owe it to yourself to do so now:
And remember, no matter what, figure out how to have fun and enjoy the process of meeting women! You'll get much better results if you do.
Wishing you success,